Enjoy the moment, no matter how this love story goes. I am not asking you to "PLAY", but my point is "ENJOY". Do not push too hard on the title(彼氏), she will feel and react once you hold serious attitude.
Appreciate you change your attitude as "nothing to lose", this could help you win the trophy in the end.
There must be more issues for you to worry after you two get together, there must be more challenges for you two to overcome after marriage decision is made.
Oh~ I gone too far~ So you don't have to worry too far la~~~
Having no schedule is the best plan.
All you have to do is follow your heart, and do your best step by step.
You will definately know what to do & how to do while timing is appropriate.
Good Luck!!!
P.S. By the way, don't forget your main task in States, it's "Diploma", isn't it?
Thanks a lot. I think I know what should I do. like what u said. "nothing to lose." If involved, be ready to let go there is what i want, just stay with her, cheer her up, take care of her.
ummm....Having no schedule is the best plan Do u have any better idea?
I can not type chinese now, but I have to suggest the Ming some things. 愛上孤單 is definitely and totally right. You had won this game in the beginning, but you lose it because of your selfish and childish emotion. 愛上孤單 has explained the whole process very clearly. I think that ming is not fittable to the girl. ming is too young boy and not mature enough. The girl has accepted your expression. It is reasonable for her to hesitate. I believe that she must have seen some immature part on Ming's personality. She needs more time to make her decision by more interaction. But ming always thinks what the relationship should be from the point of himself. So please give up this feelings. Even though you work hard to be her boyfriend, finally you both would break out after a couple of months.